4 Gambar : Punca perkahwinan wanita melayu ini di kecam hebat

Kecoh lagi di laman sosial hari ini khususnya di Instagram apabila seorang wanita yang membawa nama Haida Yusof menggemparkan para netizen dengan gaya perkahwinan ala Kristian.

Tidak cukup dengan itu, majlis perkahwinannya diselangi juga dengan aktiviti meminum arak kerana dia berkahwin dengan seorang lelaki Inggeris.

Selepas dikecam hebat di Instagram, Haida atau nama di akaun Instagramnya ialah Haida Bustaman Yusof melenting dan memberikan penjelasan panjang lebar menjawab segala kritikan dan tohmahan yang dilemparkan para netizen.

Dalam beberapa gambarnya yang sudah pun tersebar, ia memaparkan pasangan itu bercium di mulut di hadapan hadirin dan juga terdapat gambar mungkin rakan suaminya sedang meminum arak di dalam kolam renang mereka di hotel.

Haida dalam reaksi balasnya mengatakan bahawa bangsa Melayu tidak wujud dan menyuruh orang ramai kembali meneliti sejarah berkaitan bangsa itu di dalam buku-buku sejarah semula.

Berikut ialah jawapan panjang lebar, wanita bernama Haida ini dan apa pula kata anda?

“So I got back to my hotel room to hoards of hate mails and ‘kepoh’ comments from people who think they have a clue about what my life is all about. People ask me if I am malay, (pakistan/chinese/indian to be exact) Because that automatically means Islam is budaya Melayu only.

First of all, Melayu tak wujud-bangsa tak wujud. (Yang fail sejarah tu please baca balik tgk mana the roots of ‘Melayu’) Islam never teaches us to differentiate your saudara from skin color, status, blood, etc. Secondly, I had two ceremonies, one to honor my culture, one his.

For my muslim ceremony, he honored my culture and rites, so why cant I, too? Islam tak haramkan tolerance with other religion and culture asalkan tk bercanggah dengan Islam. That is NOT a priest officiating us (this is hillarious) he did it out of symbolic cultural references which I found no harm done (its my way of respecting & honoring my inlaws). There was only love and unity in that ceremony  .

Intercultural marriage is one of the most encouraged things to do in Islam, and we compromised to fit both cultural demands and I find that absolutely beautiful.  what is wrong on embracing cultures?

You Malays do many things that are haram in Islam but tutup sebelah mata; bersanding, tepung tawar, hantaran mahal2, cukur kening, fitnah, bukak aib orang tu tak haram? People say if u have nothing nice to say than shut up, you do not live in my shoes and you have no right to play God in my case and you go about worrying abt your own live.

I swear extreme mentality like this is the cause for the downfall of this nation. Calm your tits down, Malays and start being kind to your neighbours and stop being overanalytical creeps. Islam tu indah and senang, I married a mualaf and he isnt perfect, neither do I and all of you  Got time summore to put my pics in collage ??. Be kind to your neighbours and love all and learn and embrace the good. ???? here’s to a better, accomodating Malaysia.

P/s: leave your goodie-goodie abusive comments out the door, nak tnya can ask elok2, where’s your manners, buat malu mak bapak je.”

“Sorry @tia_hash ini hidup saya and awak tak berhak nk advice saya. Awak tak kenal saya, tak berhak nak kata apa2 tentang keislaman saya. Lain cerita kalau awak sendiri faham who am I, mungkin itu ada sense to advice but even then, its not nice to sibuk dengan hal saya. Saya sayang tuhan saya sendiri and budaya melayu tak ada kaitan dengan lifestyle Islam.

Cuba kaji apa orang Islam lain di luar negara buat dan buka minda  saya ni tak la baik sangat to tak bermakna awak pun sama. Kita semua sama je, jadi kalau awak nak follow saya semata2 nak join in the fitnah group, saya advice untuk leave sbb buat tmbah dosa saja.

Jangan buat assumptions kalau tak tahu apa2. But saya respect yout opinion, and I shall keep mine. Any insults will be deleted. Please spread the love ??

haidayusofSemua pengecut, comment guna fake accounts and siap bagi ceramah panjang pasal agama. Takbur betul. @adamizz96 hohoho “– PRU14.tv

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